Hurt by Infidelity?

August 14, 2009

Here’s a quiz I hope you have no interest in taking. It’s the Affair Analysis test available on the Affair Recovery Center website.

If your spouse has had an affair my heart goes out to you. My now ex had an affair — and a child– with a woman I knew. I found out when the child was a year old and the pain was unbearable. It was like someone had stuck a knife in my gut and slowly twisted it over and over and over again.

For an entire year I thought I’d never stop crying. I could barely mother my two adorable little girls. The stabbing pain lasted several years, but it did eventually go away.

When it happened to me, I desperately wanted to connect with others who’d also been through it. I felt so alone. I thought it was something that only happened in a seedy novel or bad soap opera. Now it was part of my life.

So, if it’s happened to you feel free to connect with me. Sharing is what makes pain easier.

And remember, it’s not your fault….


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